How does a person distinguish between Ambivalence and just pure miscommunication?? HP313A would probably say a person would try to ask questions and get feedback until the "mutual knowledge" is gained and share by both but what if that person don't know whether that is the right thing to do?? Not everything is as straightforward and simple as in the lecture notes eh??
An over 12-hour lag is a bit too extreme don't you think?? Which service provider has such a slow system? The longest I had a lag was about 5 hours?? I rem tt time when no one could call through my phone when my phone was switched on through out and reception was full. And no sms-es could come through that 5 hour period... But 12 hours seem a bit too extreme doesn't it??
There are now 2 camps.
First, just don't say anything and don't do anything and wait and see what happend. BUt now, he has already apologised so why am I still behaving like tt? Should just let it go and take his word right?? I think a seed of poison has already been planted in my brain and I can't think objectively... tt feeling of being snubbed last nights is still etched in my mind and I am in a really mean mood. haha! Now I am the ambivalent one!!
Second, just ask him upfront what the hell is wrong and ask him to spit it out... Tt was exactly what I would do but then, the first camp's voice quite strong lah! hahaha!! Be straightforward about it and well, the ends should justify the means so who cares if it might become a bit embarassing...?
Well, my own thoughts are a bit jumbled at the moment but not in a distracted state... Still can function thank you very much!
Well, like what ai ren told me over breakfast today... I should maybe just have my own "Friendship Day" after exams... No obligations and commitments what! =) Ai ren, you are so cute... Your eyes were twinkling and you get excited about it for me for what?! haha!!
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