According to my dear friend, a girl can never have a guy best friend... If they are best friends now, it's only a matter of time before something happens... Tt is only if the guy in question is NOT GAY (i really have nothing against gay men. In fact, I know gay men happen to make the bestest, wildest, bitchiest, funniest bestie tt any girl can ask for...)
Personal opinion: I think it's kinda hard to imagine tt u can spend so much time with tt person and not slowly develop feelings for the other... Afterall, u 2 are hanging out so often because u enjoy each other's company (first criteria when falling in love, ain't it?) and u think he's a nice person (admit it, when someone asks for ur opinion about him, u smile to urself and mumble an inaudible ''he's nice.........'', yesh, complete with the trail off at the end).
To be able to be best friends with ur lover is important i think... Lust and passion of the honeymoon period will give way to mutual understanding and comforting love... As the years pass, even tt kind of romantic feeling may go but being best friends, u can love each other and care for each other until the end...
Think about it the next time someone approaches you and ask, ''Are u 2 together?'' and u try to shrug it off with a simple, ''We are just good/best friends...''
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